Bright Futures Periodicity Schedule for Parents

When the baby is born, wash and dress the baby. 2. In the first hour of birth, recite Bismillah to a good man or the child's father. 3. Say Adhan (slowly) in the child's right ear and Iqamah in the left ear. 4. On the seventh day, give the baby a good, meaningful name. 5. On the seventh day, cut the hair of the child's head and donate the price of gold or silver equal to the weight of the hair (depending on your status). ۔6۔ Provided that there is a son (without holding a loan), then two goats or two goats or one goat and one goat as well as a goat or a goat which can be used as a sacrifice. It is masnun to do aqeeqah. If you have a daughter, it is masnun to do a goat or a goat etc. 

7. It is Sunnah to circumcise him on the seventh day if his nature allows it. 8. When a daughter is born, it is important not to sneeze and be happy at heart. It is said in the hadith that the womb is blessed before the baby is born. (Ma'arif-ul-Quran, Grand Mufti) In other words, do not consider daughters as defective and do not give preference to sons over daughters in such a way that the daughters feel that if they take the son, the daughter should also take something suitable for her. to be continued .. 9. In front of the child, while he is awake, the husband and wife should completely avoid the right of marriage, because if the child is small, but on the contrary, he has beauty in himself, which makes him a yellow arrow in his training. 10 When the child reaches the age of consciousness (understanding age), his religious education and training should be arranged. 

11. When children reach the age of five, due to the time of fitna, boys and girls should be carefully sewn separately. 12 When the child reaches the age of seven, teach prayers. 13 All should take full care of the children, especially if the mother of the children sees the children in wrong deeds or wrong things, then she should immediately scold herself and also inform the father, she should not be lenient in this. Don't let children go near bad friends and bad company and boys should play with boys and girls should play with girls. 14. When children reach the age of ten, do not allow nagha in prayers at all. Take special care of children's diet and rest as it has a great impact on health. 16. Wherever you are sent for education, keep a complete record of how it is going and how long the child has been studying. 17. Children

Parents should travel less and less for fear of socializing and the risk of their education being disrupted. If they go, children should not be left alone or with boys. Full supervision should be arranged behind them. Children should be taken to the elders or scholars for dua from time to time and they should also pray in the name of each child after each obligatory prayer. 19 Husbands and wives should also avoid sins and should not do the opposite so that the effect is not passed on to the children. 20 Children should always be treated with love and affection, not to be unduly harsh, especially to say go out of the house or do this work. If you see cheap food, you must make the child as strict as possible, but first you must understand it with love and affection. 21. After reaching adulthood, find a suitable relationship and get married in a good place. 22. Bring entertainment to the children, of course, but avoid TV and non-Shariah toys.